"Holding on my love...Making me feel comfortable..
Finally, my thoughts weren't entirely intact..."
Finally, my thoughts weren't entirely intact..."
How does "love" works when your beloved one is staying far far away from you?
Somehow, people jump into the conclusion saying that the low possibilities of maintaining a long-distance relationship..Probably, ends up with a broken heart..
I wonder if the break up really related to the "long-distance"...
I'm not so sure tho, maybe there still contain some little tiny problems between them which accumulated day by day that caused the break up...Don't blame on long-distance~
Truth to be told, I never take the "long-distance relationship" too serious in my minds...
Because, loving someone is not predictable, as being love by someone either...Not to deny that, love will somehow be faded away without any intention...
Thus, what's for to think off any worries for your long-distance love?
When the situation is no longer the same, that's a challenge...
Some people choose to let it go, some people hold it on tightly to make a point..
Then, what's the point?
The duration of time will always be the best answer...
In fact, the reason to make a choice on to hold or to loose, just depends on your deepness of your love and your desire future with your beloved one...
If it is just because of the purely love...That's not enough...
"To be realistic, love, brighter future and reliable person should be linked together to create a desire relationship...."
Without any one of these, insecure, worries, unreliable and lack of confidence will come towards...
Thus, leads to unwanted ending...
I re-read my previous articles, I re-recognize myself...
Those articles that I used to post were so much different with my recent one....
I wonder what makes it change...
I wonder what kind of person I actually am...
I had got plenty of reasons why I was like that, but I don't have any reason for now I am...
I used to ask myself, what's enough?
Since when I forget the question and staying in the fact.....
Nothing to do with long-distance
i'm currently in a long distance relationship..i knew my gf through blogging and i got together with her that time, we haven't even met..of course we met already by now..
ReplyDeletewe still love each other as much and although we both prefer it to be a short one rather than a long distance one..we are now in our 7th month of relationship..
love does fades slowly..but it also takes both side to reignite the flame back..to me..long distance relationship will work if people put in effort..i do have many people question my current relationship and me and her going through this is not to prove any point as we could care less about those people..
we just wanna prove to each other that we love each other and meant for one another...
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hi eric,
ReplyDeleteit's happy to hear that u and ur gf have been together for 7 months..
I agree with both side need to reignite their flame back instead of letting it goes..
Even if it is not a long-distance relationship, doesn't mean their love wouldn't be faded...
So, if someone lose their "love", don't blame on long-distance~ LOLx...
thanks for your comment...
My honest opinion - I am not in for long distance relationship and I have already been honest with my hubby that if he's far away from me, there are going to be temptations around me and being human, I may melt.
ReplyDeleteIf I really have to give my opinion, I'd say I have very little faith in long-distance r/s. Short-distance already seem to have so many things happening, what more long-distance?? BUT.. the good thing is, I have a friend who had long-dist r/s and they are finally married after YEARS of being apart. Awesome!! So I guess it boils down to the 2 parties involved. If they really wanna keep it gg, I guess they could..
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